4 Goals of Misbehavior in Kids [updated!]

4 Goals of Misbehavior in Kids [updated!]

I came across a sheet of paper in my files a while back that has a chart about children’s behaviors and parent interactions as a result of those behaviors. [update – credit: Austrian psychiatrist and educator, Rudolf Dreikurs] I actually have no idea where...
Five Love Languages of Kids, and How to Show Them Love

Five Love Languages of Kids, and How to Show Them Love

As we approach Valentine’s Day this year, I think it is appropriate to consider the ways that our kids need and want to be shown love. While hugs, support, discipline, kindness, and words are all a part of that expression, it is important to know that every...
How to Teach Your Child Effective Communication Skills

How to Teach Your Child Effective Communication Skills

Living in Florida, I extensively and comprehensively understand flip flops. I know which ones feel best, which ones are water friendly, and which kind never to buy. Floridians are also accused of wearing them in the middle of winter, because it is what we do. 🙂...
Kids’ Issues: Medication Vs. Play Therapy

Kids’ Issues: Medication Vs. Play Therapy

For more than a decade, parents have come into my office and provided assessments, reports, diagnoses, and treatment plans regarding their children. Most often, they still really aren’t sure that they agree or accept everything that has been laid out on the...
The Importance of Telling Your Kids the Truth

The Importance of Telling Your Kids the Truth

It is so interesting to observe the difference between adults and children when it comes to telling the truth. Adults are often quick to hide things, especially if they seem unfavorable or hurtful. Kids, on the other hand, are typically honest to a fault (and...
Why You Need to Listen to Your Kids

Why You Need to Listen to Your Kids

I have been working with more and more teens at my practice, which is interesting for several reasons. First, there has been a major shift in what parents report as concerns regarding their teens. What was prominent several years ago (moodiness, anger, rebellion) has...