http://www.thekidcounselor.com/articles/limit-setting Child Therapy, Play Therapy, Parenting Advice and Tips, Play Therapy Topics, Discipline Advice Sat, 04 Feb 2012 13:55:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.1 http://www.thekidcounselor.com/articles/limit-setting#comment-383 Limit Setting with My Almost Two-Year Old — The Kid Counselor ™ Sat, 16 Jul 2011 23:54:25 +0000 http://www.thekidcounselor.com/articles/2006/11/14/limit-setting/#comment-383 [...] You can read more about Limit Setting here and here. [...] [...] You can read more about Limit Setting here and here. [...]

]]> http://www.thekidcounselor.com/articles/limit-setting#comment-204 Stop Negotiating with Your Children — The Kid Counselor ™ Sun, 13 Mar 2011 13:57:16 +0000 http://www.thekidcounselor.com/articles/2006/11/14/limit-setting/#comment-204 [...] It would have been effective to say in the moment, even if a rule has not been previously established, “If you choose to walk around, you choose to stay right with Mommy. If you choose to run off, you choose to go in the cart.” This makes it very clear that the responsibility lies with the child to make the choice of their behavior. When you pick a child up and put her in the cart after the behavior because you are tired of it, the child learns nothing about self-control. To read more about this topic, you can view my previous article on Limit Setting. [...] [...] It would have been effective to say in the moment, even if a rule has not been previously established, “If you choose to walk around, you choose to stay right with Mommy. If you choose to run off, you choose to go in the cart.” This makes it very clear that the responsibility lies with the child to make the choice of their behavior. When you pick a child up and put her in the cart after the behavior because you are tired of it, the child learns nothing about self-control. To read more about this topic, you can view my previous article on Limit Setting. [...]

]]> http://www.thekidcounselor.com/articles/limit-setting#comment-96 Real Questions from Real Parents #3 – Kids and Chores — The Kid Counselor ™ Mon, 20 Dec 2010 02:56:20 +0000 http://www.thekidcounselor.com/articles/2006/11/14/limit-setting/#comment-96 [...] – you are setting the ground rules and letting them choose to obey or not. You can use Limit Setting tips and say, “John, chores are going to be a weekly task. If you choose to complete these [...] [...] – you are setting the ground rules and letting them choose to obey or not. You can use Limit Setting tips and say, “John, chores are going to be a weekly task. If you choose to complete these [...]

]]> http://www.thekidcounselor.com/articles/limit-setting#comment-49 Spanking Your Children – What Are the Effects? | The Kid Counselor Sat, 04 Dec 2010 01:18:50 +0000 http://www.thekidcounselor.com/articles/2006/11/14/limit-setting/#comment-49 [...] Second, you can approach your discipline in a very specific manner. I have written past articles on Limit Setting or Discipline Techniques that you can read. Finally, positive reinforcement is the most effective [...] [...] Second, you can approach your discipline in a very specific manner. I have written past articles on Limit Setting or Discipline Techniques that you can read. Finally, positive reinforcement is the most effective [...]

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