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In light of recent press (CNN, NYTimes)  regarding Cesar’s techniques and application with kids, I thought I would revisit this article with some additional information. In my previous article (Raising Kids: Wisdom from The Dog Whisperer), I discussed the importance of the energy that we present to our kids, staying calm, and acknowledging good behavior. [...]

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Discipline Tip- Stop Counting to Three!

by brenna on November 3, 2009

When I was pregnant, my husband and I went to the beach a lot. I decided to make good use of my time there and observe families enjoying the beautiful Florida coast. One of the things that consistently stood out to me over the course of the weeks is that kids can be very stubborn! [...]

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There are many ways to effectively discipline. This tip discusses the importance of being calm, firm and serious when you are disciplining your child.

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Praise vs. Encouragement – 3 Examples

by brenna on April 17, 2009

Earlier articles and videos discussed overviews of Praise vs. Encouragement, and this video provides three specific examples of praising statements that I have changed into encouraging statements, so you can hear the difference.

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Top 3 reasons that children misbehave

by brenna on April 9, 2009

Child Therapist, Brenna Hicks, LMHC, shares her top 3 most observed reasons that children misbehave, and how you can easily take care of the majority of behavior problems in small children.

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The Schools Systems across the US are learning the “Making Good Choices” phrase, and spreading it along to parents. This video explains why the Schools’ version of “Choices” is not effective, and how the Play Therapy topic of “Choice Theory” is very effective.

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Praise vs. Encouragement: An Overview

by brenna on January 6, 2009

This videos is an overview of how you can learn to be more encouraging to your kids, and the benefits your kids will get from encouragement versus praise.

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Power Struggles with Your Child

by brenna on December 30, 2008

As I meet with parents at my office, I am noticing a trend of an increase in reports of power struggles with their children. It seems that children are fighting for control more than ever before, which manifests itself in defiance, rebellion, indifference to consequences and tantrums when things do not go their way. There [...]

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Teaching Kids to be Thankful

by brenna on November 8, 2008

This is a great time of year to instill gratitude and thankful hearts in children. However, it can be difficult when most children growing up in the most recent generations (Generation Y – also known as the Millenium Generation and Generation Z) have never known life without the luxuries of the computer, cell phone and [...]

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Helping Kids Understand the Economy

by brenna on October 11, 2008

In the wake of the economic crisis, there are many changes that we are making as families. We are trying to spend less, drive less, eat out less, and cut back on extras that we can live without. As adults, we make decisions based on our best judgment on how to effectively handle the changing [...]

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