by brenna on December 1, 2009
In light of recent press (CNN, NYTimes) regarding Cesar’s techniques and application with kids, I thought I would revisit this article with some additional information. In my previous article (Raising Kids: Wisdom from The Dog Whisperer), I discussed the importance of the energy that we present to our kids, staying calm, and acknowledging good behavior. [...]
by brenna on November 3, 2009
When I was pregnant, my husband and I went to the beach a lot. I decided to make good use of my time there and observe families enjoying the beautiful Florida coast. One of the things that consistently stood out to me over the course of the weeks is that kids can be very stubborn! [...]
by brenna on April 17, 2009
There are many ways to effectively discipline. This tip discusses the importance of being calm, firm and serious when you are disciplining your child.
by brenna on April 17, 2009
Earlier articles and videos discussed overviews of Praise vs. Encouragement, and this video provides three specific examples of praising statements that I have changed into encouraging statements, so you can hear the difference.
by brenna on April 9, 2009
Child Therapist, Brenna Hicks, LMHC, shares her top 3 most observed reasons that children misbehave, and how you can easily take care of the majority of behavior problems in small children.
by brenna on February 9, 2009
The Schools Systems across the US are learning the “Making Good Choices” phrase, and spreading it along to parents. This video explains why the Schools’ version of “Choices” is not effective, and how the Play Therapy topic of “Choice Theory” is very effective.
by brenna on January 6, 2009
This videos is an overview of how you can learn to be more encouraging to your kids, and the benefits your kids will get from encouragement versus praise.
by brenna on December 30, 2008
As I meet with parents at my office, I am noticing a trend of an increase in reports of power struggles with their children. It seems that children are fighting for control more than ever before, which manifests itself in defiance, rebellion, indifference to consequences and tantrums when things do not go their way. There [...]
by brenna on November 8, 2008
This is a great time of year to instill gratitude and thankful hearts in children. However, it can be difficult when most children growing up in the most recent generations (Generation Y – also known as the Millenium Generation and Generation Z) have never known life without the luxuries of the computer, cell phone and [...]
by brenna on October 11, 2008
In the wake of the economic crisis, there are many changes that we are making as families. We are trying to spend less, drive less, eat out less, and cut back on extras that we can live without. As adults, we make decisions based on our best judgment on how to effectively handle the changing [...]